Act Like Others Are Watching–Because They Are

It’s the last secret we mention in our book, but perhaps the most important of them all: Act Like Others Are Watching–Because They Are. We’re talking about mentoring here, both having a mentor and being a mentor. It’s about having another woman to look up to, one who seems to manage the messiness of life while still getting her gym clothes sweaty on a regular basis. It’s also about being that woman that others look to for inspiration.

But obviously the most important role you have as a mentor is providing a healthy and encouraging example for your children. Being a fit mom lets you demonstrate (actions speak louder than words) that fitness is a priority in your life. Dr. Todd Smith, a family practice physician in Cottage Grove, Minn., encourages parents to get out and get active with their children. “Kids see what their parents do and don’t do, so it’s important that parents take time to show their children the importance of physical activity.” Smith adds that genetics alone do not determine a child’s health; parent modeling and overall activity level are equally, if not more, important.

Getting a little territorial? Maybe you like to think of your workouts as your much-coveted “me time,” a chance to escape. Don’t worry, we’re not asking you to give up that solo time altogether. Keep your solo sweat, but consider adding in activities that let the whole family in on the fun. There are lots of fun ways to workout with your kids. Schedule time as a family to participate in fitness and outdoor pursuits, perhaps on a weekly basis. By spending family time together in an active setting, you are showing children the importance of family togetherness as well as health and fitness.

Here are a few tactics to add to your fit family repertoire:

Cady setting out on her first race with Dad.

1. Let the kids help develop a list of potential activities. Creating a list for each season means you’re never left incapacitated by inclimate weather. Plan outdoor activities whenever possible and get the kids out of the house (and away from the television and computer).

2. Focus on time, not intensity. Remind your kids that, just like family life, fitness is about endurance. Enjoy the time and don’t worry about the caloric burn.

3. Invest in gear. Frisbees, bats and balls, even a water sprinkler can get the family moving. Just make sure there are lots of options. Investing in the (practical) essentials is worth your dollar, too. While positioned in a jogging stroller or bike trailer, kids get a similar adrenaline rush as you! The final blocks back to your home are the perfect place to let little legs work off energy.

5. Be creative. Simple tasks like washing the car, raking the yard, gardening, and snow shoveling can be fun family activities. Be creative with your time, too. If your children are taking swim lessons, think about jumping in an open lane yourself. Consider running around the soccer fields while your kids are at practice, or just some sit ups and push ups from the sidelines (who cares if those other parents are looking… bet they want to join you!).

6. Look for local road races that offer opportunities for kids to compete too. The Medtronic Twin Cities Marathon even has a diaper dash for the aspiring walker! When you run a race on your own, make arrangements so your kids can watch you cross the finish line (or cross the finish line with you). It’s important that they  see you accomplish your goals and experience the rewards of hard work.

7. Visit your local park, recreation center, or nature center. Just bringing your children to the playground on a regular basis encourages them to use their large motor skills and burn off some energy. Look for nature paths, or paved park trails so kids can walk, run, or rollerblade with you in sight.

8. Let your children investigate sports alternatives in organized league play. Most recreation centers offer community leagues for soccer, basketball, and more. Call your local center to get a seasonal list of athletic offerings. If possible, volunteer to coach to show them just how fun and important fitness is.

9. Encourage older kids to join you on runs, bike rides, or trips to the gym. Invite them to ride their bikes along with you as you run on local trails. Let them run with you at the track where they can go their own pace.

10. Emphasize fun! In order to build long-lasting behaviors, make sure kids are enjoying their physical activity. It is, after all, about building life-long habits and behaviors for the entire family.

The smile says it all...

Wanna see a smile like that on your kid’s face? If you live in the Twin Cities area and are interested in running the Get in Gear races next week (Saturday, April 30), we’d like to help you get out there with your kiddo. We’ve got a kid’s 2K entry to give away as well as an adult entry to any event (2K with your child, 5K, 10K or half marathon). Comment below and tell us why you’d like to participate…  We’ll select a winner this Friday!




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4 responses to “Act Like Others Are Watching–Because They Are

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  2. Deborah,Thank you so much for visiting my blog and the beuitaful feedback. I am so sorry for not responding sooner. Being the mother of three boys and working two businesses, sometimes it takes a while to respond to my comments from viewers. However, I would love to keep in touch with you and am excited to be bringing a great e book to the internet called: Stacy Rae Mednick’s Mid-Life Workout System for Women 40 and Beyond. You’ll be hearing more on my blog when it’s closer to the date. Have a great day!StacyRaeFitnessMama 714 717 0335 ( Call me if you ever want to connect via phone )

  3. Ladies! I just got your book in the mail five minutes ago and am really excited to read it.

    But we are also so thrilled to see my daughter’s quote on p 143 (I am Kezia’s mama.) I can’t wait to show it to her this afternoon. Is there any way I can get an autographed copy of the book for you all for her? I could mail you mine – but i want to read it first! : )

    ~ Misha

  4. Jayne

    I’d love to run this with Joe for two reasons. #1. I am getting back into “it” so I need some inspiration and I need to get back out there. #2. The first time my son ever saw someone run in a race it was my brother in his first marathon. He was so inspired that he wanted to run with the other runners. At 4 1/2 he took off in his denim shorts and beat up shoes and tried to run along side the marathoners. He made it a block or so but people were cheering for him and runners were giving him high fives. He was so excited. He loves asking us about our runs or if we need to go on a run. And when we’re back he asks how they went. He’s old enough now to make it more then a block and I know with the crowd and excitement around an organized race he’d be in heaven.

    As a side note: After that marathon I was inspired to run my first 5K and then moved to a 1/2. My husband also got back into running too. Come to think of it maybe I should nominate my brother to run with me as our family inspiration. It’s true…yes, people are watching 😉

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